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Sunday, January 8, 2017

New Broken China Jewelry In My Etsy Shop & Goals For 2017

Hello friends! I hope 2017 has been off to a great start for each of you! I started my year off with a dose of creative inspiration with a visit to the Philadelphia Museum of Art, and if you missed my blog post about it, be sure to check it out here! 

I am so grateful for the opportunities and challenges I've had in 2016, and it really has been a year of creative transformation! I am once again deciding what I am going to do for 2017. As I did last year, I am still considering the possibility of a third book, putting some ideas together for a few more jewelry or craft DVDs, and once again jumping head first into creating new designs for 2017! 

I love exploring different areas of design, and in 2016 became absolutely engrossed with illustrating for fun. I was thrilled to find that my original designs that I created from pen and ink illustrations have been selling well as a variety of home decor products on Society6, so I will certainly be doing more drawing and painting in 2017!


On the flipside, I am making a few small personal goals for 2017 that are things like trying to eat more vegetables, make sure I get more sleep (I absolutely love working late into the night but unfortunately it just doesn't mesh well with having to get up at 6:30 in the morning!), and of course, staying more organized in my workshop.

Here are the latest pieces of jewelry that I have listed in my Etsy shop. I know some of you like to see these enlarged photos, so I try to get them up here on the blog every now and again. 


A word about the piece above - I am in LOVE with this necklace - it is a larger sized statement necklace that I made from an antique Art Nouveau Flow Blue plate that was broken to pieces. (2 & 2/3" by 2 & 3/8", sterling silver chain.) 


Oh, wait! I thought of another goal for 2017. I am determined to get my sewing machine out and sew lots of stuff. :) Not sure exactly what yet, but I really could use new kitchen curtains so I think I am going to start there. Maybe after that I will think of something fantastical and creative to create!


Click each image to be taken to my shop for more details and purchasing information. 








Valentine's Day is coming soon! All items shown below are available for purchase at https://www.etsy.com/shop/dishfunctionldesigns


What are your goals for 2017?  



Have a great week!
love,
 Laura

Tuesday, December 27, 2016

It's Quitting Season! Choose Change Now!


It's quitting season! Why not use the excitement and momentum of the upcoming New Year to accelerate your quitting smoking? 



With the winter holidays approaching, I thought back to years past when at family gatherings, the smokers would gather outdoors to take a cigarette break, away from the rest of the family. As a child, I watched this strange ritual, listening to the coughing and knowing that it was probably not healthy. Never did I expect that one day, years later, I would become part of that circle and be partaking in this same ritual. 

It wasn't until many years later that I decided to quit smoking - to quit once and for all. I tried a couple times over the years but I was never successful. One of the main motivating things that made me decide to quit for good was my health. And once I had children, I found myself with yet another reason to quit the habit.

I thought a lot about breathing. I hated waking up in the morning congested and I thought back to the times before I was a smoker, and how it felt to breathe freely and not have a cough. I was determined to quit and to once again be in control of my health. 

I decided to use NicoDerm® CQ® patch to help me quit. 




It was the psychological attachments that I really struggled to get through. For example, I thought a lot about the rituals that came along with smoking. Just as when I would stop periodically through the day to smoke a cigarette and take a "smoke break", after quitting smoking I changed that smoking break habit into stopping periodically through the day to take a "breathing break" or a "fresh air break". 

Breathing exercises really helped me get through cravings. I found that the moments or minutes during cravings were vital because of my increased vulnerability to giving in. That's the moment when you have to take the bull by the horns and take control and really own it, and make the decision that your personal strength is stronger than any craving. I found that the NicoDerm® CQ® patches helped to control my cravings, and kept me in check from slipping up and giving in.

The NicoDerm® CQ® patches were the real reason for success when quitting smoking. I started with the strongest or highest dose of patches.

I felt a little bit anxious at the thought of moving to a lower dosage. That was the old smoker in me creating fear out of the unknown. But once I actually started using the next lower dose, everything was fine. Once again, the smoking demon was losing its control over me and I was gaining my control back. It was a really good feeling. 

2 weeks later it again was time to step down to the NEXT lower dosage of the NicoDerm® CQ® patch (always use as directed). I again felt a tiny little bit of apprehension but, once again, just as with my first step down, once I actually used the lower dose patch within one or two days I was completely fine! I was so happy with my progress. Stepping down to the next lower dose when I was ready helped me feel in control of my quit. I was winning. I also downloaded quit smoking apps on my phone so that I could watch my progress and gauge my success. (Be sure to check out and register for MyQuit™, which is an email support program based on where you are in your quit journey and customized for your chosen product - because the support you need in your first week is different than the support need in your last!)



As of writing this, it's been over a year and a half since I quit smoking. I've never felt better. As a matter of fact, my health just keeps improving. I know that if I had continued to smoke, my health would have probably just declined. Not only do I feel good physically, but also I am mentally strong. I've battled a huge monster, the smoking addiction, and I won. 

Now that I am a non-smoker my hair, skin, and clothes always smell fresh and clean, as does my car and my workshop. I save a tremendous amount of money and time. I wake up in the morning and can take clear deep breaths of air. Last winter was probably one of the first where I didn't get sick with a winter cold as I usually would when I was a smoker. 

But probably one of the greatest things since quitting smoking is the feeling of freedom that I now have since smoking no longer has any type of control over me. I don't have to run out late at night or at inconvenient times because I'm running out of cigarettes. I don't have to look for places wherever I am where I can go to smoke a cigarette. I don't have to worry about getting the smoke smell out. No more getting sick with and Googling symptoms because I feel congestion in my chest. 

But probably most importantly, is I've shown myself and my children, that I am stronger than smoking. I've shown both my children and myself that you can accomplish anything as long as you put your mind to it. There is no greater gift you can give yourself – and your family – and no better way to start the New Year, than by loving yourself enough to quit smoking. If I can do it, you can too. Start a new family tradition this holiday, gather together and be healthy.

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Monday, November 7, 2016

Small Distractions: Scattered Wastes of Time or Essential Creative Excursions?


I've been thinking. (hehe - really!) I've been thinking about the small - - and sometimes not so small -  - excursions that we artists often take when exploring our creativity and artistic skills and knowledge. Side projects. New ventures. Big ideas. 

Are these mini road trips of imagination and creative exploration sidetracking us and doing more harm than good? Do they impede the bigger picture, or do they lend to it? 

One of my favorite sayings is, "Don't major in minor things." I've always considered these words of advice to be an essential truth. Focus on the bigger picture, keep your eye on the ball, don't be distracted by smaller, insignificant things. Seek out the essence and hold tight to that vision! Don't stray from the path! 

I believe all of these things to be true. As a matter of fact, I grew up with this mindset subliminally repeated to me every day of my childhood life when I would run into my father's den and on the wall next to his desk attached to a large bulletin board was a small 5 x 7" framed light blue index card with dark red metallic sticker letters (made from the same sticker material as the classic gold stars that teachers used to stick on spelling tests) that in all caps read, 
"IS WHAT I AM DOING GETTING ME CLOSER TO MY OBJECTIVE?" 

It's weird thinking about it now, but as a child I read that little sign nearly every day of my life. And I remember back to the time when I was so young that I could read it, but I didn't know what it meant. For real. But it was there on the wall, in my father's den, next to his giant desk, with shiny red letters, and in a frame, so it must have been very important. 

Fast-forward a few years and again the words played within my head, turning and becoming more comfortable -  - they began to shape into an idea and began to make sense. Dad must have some pretty important things to do, I remember thinking. And, what exactly did OBJECTIVE mean? 

By the time that I was old enough to understand what the sentence meant, I figured that dad simply liked to use that saying as a daily reminder to not procrastinate. But no. I read it again. Not procrastinate, but more to stay on task. I had solved the mystery. Dad got sidetracked. So did I! I guess I was my father's daughter after all. You know what they say: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. 

I'll admit it, I don't just multi-task, I take it to a whole new level. Between designing and creating all the jewelry for my Dishfunctional Designs jewelry shop, maintaining this blog, writing design books and thinking up new tutorials for print and video, as well as being a single mom to two girls and taking care of all of the workings of a household single-handedly, my hands are full. But...I'm currently studying Natural History Illustration through Newcastle University AU through a distance course, and I've gotten bitten by the illustration bug...which has led me to now experimenting with designing and creating my first collection of clothing and home decor featuring my artwork. 

All of those things are parts of what I do, and all of those things help with the directions that I want my career to travel. But what about other, small excursions of creativity? How can you tell whether something is going to be a useful addition to your career aspirations, or just a waste of time, effort, and maybe even a waste of money?

Years ago after every busy holiday season of producing and selling jewelry I used to get excited for January to roll around. This is when I would take a mini vacation - a few weeks "off" where I would often pursue a completely new craft or jewelry venture. One year (2006 to be exact) I bought a small tabletop kiln and all the supplies needed to do basic powdered glass enameling. I bought loads of silver heart charms (the type that you would attach to a charm bracelet) and I enameled them. Some I even painted after they were enameled. To paint on them, I had to use a magnifying glass. And of course to do this I needed special enamel paints and the finest (smallest) brushes possible... 


Heart charm that I enameled and painted (shown enlarged. actual size: 1/2") 2006


Silver spoon bracelet with heart charm that I enameled and painted 2006



...So I painstakingly made a batch of these little hearts, attached them to bracelets and sold them. But they just weren't my thing. I spent a lot of money on the kiln combined with all of the enameling supplies, the paints and brushes - and the time that I invested. That was the biggest loss. The trial and error, the uglies that got tossed somewhere in a box to be forgotten... I am glad I bought the kiln, and I've been thinking about pulling it out again this winter to play with again, but I regret investing so much of myself, my time, and my money into something that had so little return to me both artistically and financially. But those are the breaks. That is what we risk when we try something new.  



By all means, experiment. Try new things. It will open your mind to new possibilities and it will help you to expand your creativity. You will learn new skills and techniques. But sometimes it can be like buying home exercise equipment: the world is filled with good intentions. 

Before you invest (both money and time) think long and hard about what your goal is. What is it that you want to learn from what you are going to do? How will you use that newfound knowledge to further your main objective? There's that word! Objective!

On one hand, I believe part of my success has been my willingness to experiment and try new things. Those who know me know that I don't give up on things easily. To be successful you must be focused, and have a concrete goal to work towards. You must be motivated and have the drive to direct yourself towards that goal. And you must be open to constant learning and self-improvement. And maybe even most importantly, you must be willing and able to fail. To pick yourself back up, dust yourself off, give it another go, and maybe even have the courage to change direction.

Think about these things: What good is a random project? To what degree will you execute it? (read: how much are you going to get into this?) How will it benefit you? How will it benefit your career ambitions? And maybe even most importantly: Will doing this random project keep you away from what you are supposed to be doing?


Is what you are doing getting you closer to your objective?

What random projects have you done? How have they helped you? Have you done any that turned out to be a waste of time? Any that had surprising benifits? Leave me a comment below!


Have a great week!
Love,
 Laura



article and images ©Laura Beth Love 2016 all rights reserved

Monday, August 29, 2016

The Magic Behind The Tools: Everything You Need Is Already Inside Of You


A friend was recently visiting me while I was making some jewelry. She noticed my inexpensive hand tools and asked me why I wasn't using more expensive/professional grade hand tools instead of the thrifty "economy" versions that I was using. Some of my favorite and most used hand tools – and even some of those I use in my books – are inexpensive chain nose pliers, round nose pliers, and end cutters. 


I guess I never really thought too much about it. I've always just been busy creating. It's true that you can buy expensive tools such as pricey pliers that are a bit more comfortable to use because they're more ergonomically correct, which I'm sure would be beneficial if you're doing a lot of repetitive work - but I don't do that type of work so I guess I just never really had the need. I've always been pretty happy with what I have, and never saw the need for buying anything else. I've actually always thought of my hands as my tools, and any pliers or anything else that I used - as just extensions of me.


But my friend's question reminded me of a remark that a fan posted on my Dishfunctional Designs Facebook page a few years ago who commented when I put up a photo of an intricately made artwork that I created out of an old plate. The person said something to the point of, "Wow, what amazing tool did you use to create this beautiful artwork?" to which I immediately (half-jokingly and half seriously) replied, "It was the amazing woman behind the tool that created the artwork!" The person responded with an enlightened "Yes!" And we traded Emoji smiles. :)
  
It's not the tool that creates the artwork. It's the magic of the person behind the tool. It's their mind and their hands, it's their creativity, imagination, and innovation. It's their personal magic that creates art.
 
  
I recently received an email from a fan in Italy who sent me a photo of herself working making jewelry from broken china plates using techniques that she learned from my book, Boho Chic Jewelry. She thanked me for writing my books and for sharing my secrets so that she (and other people) could make jewelry like mine. She said that she didn't have the money to buy some of the tools that I recommended in my book but that she was improvising and using what she had (cruder hand tools) until she could afford to buy some of the tools that I recommended that would make her work easier. 

With her email she included photos of some of the jewelry that she made, which was beautiful. In reading her letter and seeing the photos of what she had created, it was clear to me that she had the understanding and the magic because of her motivation and innovation, which was apparent in her jewelry.

Understand that everything you need is already inside of you. The secret is to tap into that magic and use it.



In my books Boho Chic Jewelry and Soldered Alchemy, I suggest what tools are optimal to help you create jewelry. But please understand that YOU are the one ultimately making the jewelry, not the tools! 

Some synonyms for tools are: utensil, instrument, apparatus, gadget, device... but please realize that you, your hands, and your imagination are the biggest, most important tools that you have!

Understand this: There are many tools available that can help you work faster and maybe more efficiently, but there is no tool in the universe that will help you work with a higher level of creativity or motivation. 

Make creativity your daily practice and make this practice a way of life, instead of thinking about what particular tool, apparatus, instrument, utensil or gadget you need to buy, because all of that is secondary. Tools are merely the instruments of you. Are they helpful? Are they essential? Of course they are. They help you do certain tasks that are impossible to do with bare hands. But my point is this: Focus on innovation, on having a different perspective, and on being creative, because that is the secret to creating beauty. 


What do you think? I'd love to hear your voice so please leave me a comment below.


Have a great week! 
Laura


My broken china jewelry is always available for purchase at https://www.etsy.com/shop/dishfunctionldesigns


article and images ©Laura Beth Love 2016 all rights reserved. 


Sunday, August 7, 2016

Frog in my backyard pond jumping out of the water like a bullet trying to eat a leaf that was stuck on a cobweb - in slow motion (video)


It all started out so innocently.

There was a small pond. 

With a few fish.

And a pretty water lilly. 

And a crazy frog! 

Hi friends! I have something funny to share with you today. It's a short slow motion video! I filmed it last week in my backyard, and yes, I recorded the video on my iPhone. hehe.  

I shared this video clip on my Instagram last week, and then I realized I had to share it with you on the blog too, so I uploaded it to my YouTube channel and here it is. 

I love taking nature photos and shooting nature videos (especially slow motion videos) and if you follow my Instagram you probably already know this because you probably have already seen my "Woodpecker Listening to My Daughter Play Bass" videomy "Friendly Moth" videoand my most recent "Floating Butterfly" video. 

Hehe, I know - they're all kind of silly... But this frog is really something to see. 

The backstory: 
I was sitting outside in my "outdoor office" next to my fish pond, and I heard a splash. Out of the corner of my eye I saw Mr. Frog jump a foot into the air! Then I noticed what he was jumping at... there was a small brown leaf stuck in a cobweb that was strung across my fishpond. The leaf was perfectly suspended about 18 inches above the surface of the water, and it spun and bobbed in the breeze. Mr. Frog took notice. He jumped again. Then again. Then I grabbed my phone...keep your eye on the frog!

 Enjoy! 



I love how he uses his hands to try to scoop the leaf into his mouth! What do you think?


I hope you have a great week! 
Love, 
Laura


My broken china jewelry is always available for purchase at https://www.etsy.com/shop/dishfunctionldesigns


article and images ©Laura Beth Love 2016


Wednesday, August 3, 2016

A Meditative Sketch: Find Your Magic

I shared this freehand sketch on my Instagram a week or two ago and liked it so much that I thought I would share it with you here on my blog. It's a simple drawing that I drew while sitting outside on my back patio next to my fish pond (aka my outdoor office!), right as dusk was approaching and the sun was beginning to set.


It started as sort of a mandala drawing. I began with a simple circle and then added the leaves and from there it bloomed into what you see above. I could have gone on and added lots of layers and embellished the heck out of it, but instead I left it as is, pleased with its simplicity. I'm a big fan of Art Nouveau and Craftsman motifs and sometimes I see faint impressions and inspirations of those designs come alive in my own artwork and doodles. 


I snapped the photo above with my iPhone and then added a bit of digital text art (the "Find your magic") with an iPhone app as an overlay on the photo of the drawing - but not on the original drawing. 

I think I chose the words Find Your Magic because sometimes it's in doing simple, relaxing things that you come into your personal magic. Just like when I made this drawing. When do you come into your personal magic? 




I hope you have a creative weekend! 
Love, 
Laura




My broken china jewelry is always available for purchase at https://www.etsy.com/shop/dishfunctionldesigns


article and images ©Laura Beth Love 2016

Friday, July 22, 2016

10 Ways To Be A Creative Thinker: Perspective Is Everything

Some see trash, I see treasure 

What is creative thinking? 
How do creative people come up with their clever, innovative ideas? 
How can I be a creative thinker? 

Is creativity a gift? Do some folks have it and others not? Why does it seem that some people seem to have a constant flow of innovative ideas while others seem to struggle to come up with one original idea? If you've ever wondered about any of the above questions, read on for my 10 tips and suggestions to help boost your own creative thinking.


10 Ways To Boost Your Creativity 

1. Perspective is Everything. 
Creative people are open-minded. They give themselves permission to stray from a straight and narrow line of human thought and branch out into uncharted territories. They train their minds to look at things (whether it be materials or situations) from a variety of different perspectives. Be open minded. Practice seeing things from different points of view.

2. Develop Patience.
Creative thinkers don't quickly rush to find a solution or an answer to a problem. They patiently consider different options and give equal weight to different possibilities. They give themselves the gift of time to weigh out different options (they give themselves time to consider different perspectives, as in #1 above!) 

3. Be Optimistic.
An optimistic mind is an open mind. It's also a positive mind. Besides helping to boost creativity, being optimistic is good for your health. If you tend to be a negative thinker, banishing negative thoughts from your mind can take some time and practice, but you can do it! 
When you feel a negative thought coming into your mind, recognize it for what it is, label it as a negative thought, and then replace that negative thought with a positive one. Make yourself get into the habit of doing this and after a while it will become second nature. A well-balanced, optimistic, open mind is more welcoming to new and different ideas than a negative, closed mind. Make sense?

4. Be Grateful. 
Gratitude is directly related to optimism. When you slow down and relax your body and mind and open yourself up to feelings of gratitude, anxieties disappear and the mind becomes a clean slate. What are you grateful for? Make a list. Better yet, start a gratitude journal. Every day write down something that you are grateful for. Review your list constantly.




5. Read.
Read! Explore other worlds through reading books. Reading not only helps boost your creativity by opening your mind to new worlds, but it also helps expand your vocabulary, stimulates your brain, and makes you smart. Reading also helps develop concentration and focus, not to mention it's just plain awesome. 

6. Teach yourself to relax.
When life gets busy we tend to get stressed out. Do you know how to relax? Always know that you have the power to comfort yourself. Everything you need is already inside of you. Be confident in your abilities to comfort and relax yourself. Once you realize that you have this amazing power, use it frequently! Even the simplest exercise - such as deep breathing - is a powerful tool that YOU own. Use it! I find that my own creativity blossoms when I am relaxed.

7. Believe in your personal magic. 
Every single person in the world has their own special magic. I think that lots of people get so caught up in day to day life that they either ignore their magic or they never take the time to foster it and allow it to grow and blossom. Or maybe they have allowed pessimism and negativity to bury their magic so deep down inside of themselves that it remains hidden. What talents do you posses? How can you use your talents to help other people? Find those talents and use them for good. Help other people live better lives.  

8. Play.
Play games, listen to music, play with your children, play with hobbies and things that are fun and bring you joy. Imaginative play and games that require you to think and use your imagination are great ways to get the gears in your brain moving and spark your creativity. Know how to have fun! I love to play games!


9. Know who you are. 
Spend as much time as you can surrounded by nature and without distractions. Leave the phone at home. Listen to the sound of your footsteps on a woodsy trail. Look around at all of the colors and shapes of life. Use all of your senses to take it all inside of you. Just as there are rocks beneath your feet and trees around you, realize that you are a part of all of that life. Just as you look at a tree and take in an impression of that tree, realize that all that you say and do to other people is your own legacy. Make it a good one. 

10. Give.
This is one of my personal favorites. Give. Share your ideas. Give them away. I firmly believe that it is in the process of giving away what we know that allows us to be open to receive more, brand new ideas. Some people think of ideas or creative ideas as being sacred secrets  - what I mean by this is that they think they have some sort of secret formula that they need to keep hidden to themselves and that that is their power, when in actuality the opposite is true. It is in giving away that you increase your power. It is in giving away that you make room for brand new ideas. By helping other people you are releasing goodness into the world that will come back to you twofold. Give! 

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this, so be sure to leave a comment below!



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I hope you have a creative week! 
Laura




My broken china jewelry is always available for purchase at https://www.etsy.com/shop/dishfunctionldesigns


article and images ©Laura Beth Love 2016

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